We were supposed to be out of town til tomorrow. We were supposed to go to the movies and have homemade pizza tonight. Saturday Mae got sick and had a 102+ and sometimes 103+ temp.
A trip to the out of town ER and then last night I got home about 1230 because I just couldnt stay any longer with her AGAIN running a 103 temp.
Got her home, in the bath, and now we are waiting for our 1115 appointment. Sadly the boyfriend was right...she's better this morning.
But as a good mom I just couldnt stay out of town another day without getting her to her doctor.
Wish our trip hadnt been interrupted but thats what happens when you have kids.
Also sadly the boyfriend is bringing up all kinds of daddy issues with my girl. Her spermdonor is a piece of shit who cares more about himself then her. Hasnt seen her in over a year and has had no contact with her. She loves and misses him but there is no way Im going to go out of my way to make him see her. He either does it on his own or not at all. The flip side is that the boyfriend is doing a very very VERY good job of being "daddy" to her.
Im just waiting for the day she asks if he can be her daddy and call him daddy. Im pretty sure that he isnt going to have a problem. Like me he thinks her SD is a pos for ignoring the way to see his own child. But he has no problem stepping up and doing the things that a daddy is supposed to do for a kiddo.
It was bliss til the fever hit lol but what are you going to do except look at your man and go sorry that you went from single to a family man in one swoop. BUT unlike the ex, who had issues with Mae being my priority, i have a real man now who understands that he isnt number 1 because she has to be number one.
And now I get to think about this...will Mae be my last baby? I think that if things keep going the way they are she actually may get herself that brother or sister she wants lol.
Life is as good as it gets for me and Ive been computerless since Saturday morning thats why Ive been absent. But Im living life and doing it with someone who loves me and my kid and GETS how it is.
Yup I love that man, even if he is a sex monster lol
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He's a keeper, if he can totally understand that your daughters health and welfare come first!! Taking on the "daddy" roll would scare many a man, glad to see he's just rolling with it.
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